Saturday, December 31, 2011

Ego


I'm sure that among everybody there are bound to be suckers who constantly feed their ego, complimenting themselves and just keep undermining others to make themselves feel more superior.

I've noticed that there's this problem among many guys, they like to make themselves sound so much better than they really are and they have forgotten the main principle in a modern relationship, "girls are meant to be taken care of, loved and pampered, not the other way round."

These guys like to shower themselves with compliments that are not necessary true and constantly undermine their other half.

Modern girls are no longer girls who stay at home waiting for their husbands to get home and make dinner, much less for couples who are not even married yet.

Treat us with respect and compliments that we deserve, not just occasional “I love you(s)”

Unless the following situations, there’s no reason why you shouldn’t show more love for your girl:

1. She’s so fat & ugly that you are the last person in the earth that will ever want her.

2. She has no education, experience nor knowledge or any skills to survive without you.

3. You are so damn good that no girl in the world would ever want to lose you (but then again, if you’re that good, you wouldn’t treat a girl this way)

There are so many more reasons why you should treat your partner better, but understand that nobody will die just because they don’t have you. There are infinite opportunities and alternative for one person, don’t be eaten up by your ego.





There will be a day when she realized that you don’t even really give a fuck for her, but only yourself. That’s the last straw for your girl; she will turn her head against you and never turn back.

You always think to yourself, why girls that will stick with you and bear with your ego without feeling affected are always those stupid or ugly ones, and why those girls that you try so hard to get and win just can’t bear with your constant narcissism. Simply put, girls who have brain, looks and everything don’t like to be undermined, they would bear with it for once or twice but soon enough, she will be done with giving in, with the constant feeling of being inferior cause she knows that she deserve so much more and that you do not deserve her at all for you have no knowledge of how to treat a girl proper.

If you really love and care for someone, do something, show that you care. Don’t give up things and people that are so important to you and will make a great difference in your life just because of your ego. Ego is nothing but something that you tell yourself, something that blocks your logical thinking and feeding it will just make you lose so much in life.

Sunday, December 18, 2011

2011

I know that I haven't been exactly a nice person, thus people may see me as a friend that is very hard to accommodate. I'm trying, and learning to be a better person.

Truth is, I'm very insecure, so damn insecure that I need to let people perceive that I'm actually very confident and sometimes, it may be seemed as arrogance.

I want to be a more accommodating person, someone whom you’d want to be with. It’s those insecurities that are fucking up my head.